By Jory Hanselman
February 27th, 12:18 AM, from the journal of a BaMidbar Field Guide:
Working as a Field Guide at BaMidbar Wilderness Therapy is tough. Field Guides are in the wilderness for days or weeks on end, away from family and loved ones, technology, and the creature comforts of modern life. They handle unpredictability, are exposed to a variety of weather and elemental forces, and work with students experiencing deep internal struggle. Field Guides cannot merely be transmitters of program philosophy or facilitators of program structure; they must bring their whole and authentic self to the work. Working in a residential, mental health treatment environment, their primary job is to engage each student’s individual agency: to help the student grow internally, from their own motives.
How do you teach someone to engage agency, to engender someone else’s growth and development? It takes a high level of emotional intelligence to effectively engage agency, particularly from an at-risk population. Luckily, emotional intelligence is not just a quality, it’s also a skill; a muscle that can be developed, stretched, and strengthened. At BaMidbar, we focus on eight areas to support staff in strengthening their emotional intelligence muscles. The following is adapted from BaMidbar’s staff handbook.
I frequently tell staff, “You can only take someone as far as you’ve gone yourself.” A guide’s greatest power lies in their personal understanding of their own process of becoming the person they are today, and their ability to actively share that process. BaMidbar asks guides to accept and capitalize on who they already are, and the unique gifts they alone have to give.
Field guide at a viewpoint
In Mussar practice, Anavah, or humility, is understood as taking up the right amount of space. This means you do not think you are more than or less than what you really are. By taking up the right amount of space ‐ knowing when to step back, and when to step forward ‐ one is able to learn from others. The humble person understands that every person encountered has something to teach.
Field guide sitting near sand dunes
Be Willing to Let Go:
If you’ve been hired as a BaMidbar Field Guide, you likely have a lot of experience and a well developed personal philosophy. To be a truly effective Field Guide though, one must also learn to unlearn. Each of us carries images of ourselves and assumptions about the world that impact how we move through life and interact with others. While these beliefs may be personal truths, they might not be universal truths. What serves a staff member might not serve a student and their unique needs. Only as we let go, can we then grasp something else, see others clearly, learn new things, and allow each individual to find their own unique path.
Field guide taking a breath
Do Your Own Work:
Each staff should be walking the same road we expect our students to walk, seeking to change and grow. If we think our own highest degree of personal effectiveness as a Field Guide is achievable by living one way in the midbar ‐ the wilderness ‐ and another way out of the midbar, we are mistaken. We cannot effectively help a student forgive if we are holding serious hurts and grudges. We cannot effectively help a student find their path to sobriety if we binge on our off week. Students need Field Guides who are doing their own personal work.
Staff during a hike
When working with an at-risk population, this value is of the utmost importance. Each staff must learn what this means to them personally, and seek to be mindful of their capacity to love honestly and without expectation of reciprocity. People choose as true mentors and teachers those from whom they feel genuine love. A staff’s view of a particular student will determine what they are able to observe about them. When staff see a student as worthy of unconditional love, they are able to notice all aspects of their behaviors pertinent to their treatment and healing.
Field guide and student during hiking break
When offended, we fixate on our own needs and challenges, not the motives and challenges of the student. All behavior is communication, and negative behavior is oftentimes communication of an unmet need. A Field Guide’s job is not to manipulate behavior; rather, it is to support a student in effectively communicating and meeting their needs. When staff remain unoffended, they are better able to see the students for who they are (not what they do) and therefore are better able to understand the help they need from program staff, their therapist, and the group.
Field guide sitting on fence
Full-blown, run around, heart pounding, all‐in fun and games is an essential part of the Field Guide role. Play relieves anxiety. Playing a game with students gives staff a different context for observation and assessment. Playing a game helps the students see staff and other students as people like them. Playing gives opportunities for intervention that may not come up otherwise. Playing gives students opportunities to enjoy time with staff. This helps foster a relationship of trust and invites students to be more open and honest with staff.
Field guide and students playing a game
- Observe Carefully: In order to interject themselves meaningfully into the lives of students, Field Guides have to know what kind of interjections are needed. This takes careful observation. Staff should observe each student’s interactions, scan for subtle behaviors, and look for signs that help staff understand how the student sees the world and themselves. Seek to understand, before interjecting.
Field guide observing student interaction
- Get Into Their Space: Students need to be interrupted in many ways, all the time. They need to be interrupted in their behavior, thoughts, self‐image, patterns, self‐justifications, etc. Field Guides are not doing their job if they are not interjecting themselves into the very lives of students several times a day. Sometimes an interjection might be playing a quick game, other times it might be pulling a student aside, and still other times it might be holding an impromptu group. Behavior should never “slide by.”
Field guide and student playing Connect Four
- Focus on Way of Being: Focus on behavior that reveals the student’s way of being, like how they treat others, or how they talk about themselves. Almost all behavior can offer opportunities for learning, but some behaviors, albeit more subtle sometimes, are more important than others in terms of helping the student notice their way of being.
Field guide and student sit by lake
Working at BaMidbar, I am constantly amazed at the maturity, intentionality, and patience of Field Guides. They work while hungry, tired, wet, and cold, maintaining safety under all circumstances while keeping a smile on their face. Just as I’ve seen our students grow at BaMidbar, I’ve seen our staff go through an incredible transformation as well. They wholly embrace what it means to engage agency, interject meaningfully, and bring their whole selves to the work that they do. This takes profound self-knowledge, and willingness to dig deep personally, to support students in their own process of growth, development, and self-discovery.
Jory is the founding director of BaMidbar Wilderness Therapy at Ramah in the Rockies and is a Wexner Field Fellow. Jory holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Environmental Studies and Philosophy from Tufts University and is a Master of Public Administration degree candidate at the University of Colorado – Denver’s School of Public Affairs.